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Packingtapesheffffff.... our firewall is back to it's gatefilter crap again so now, i can't view my blog at work again... grrr....

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My nephew had his first DPT shots yesterday... so I went home last night only to find him all red and tearful... ooooh, the hurt expression on his face...

I swear, my Mom was feeling the pain for him too... she wouldn't even put him down... And me, I cried a little everytime he cries 'coz I felt all too strongly for him too... wishing I could spare him the pain... realizing that it's a threshold for him, experiencing his first necessary hurt...

And I also had to tell myself... he's not mine... he's not mine...

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My sister, 17 years old, is contemplating a break up w/ new bf (23 years old)... for the following reasons:

1) She's taller than him

2) He has a car but hasn't got the money to buy gas for it (he's already graduated from college but decided to take up another undergrad course.. Psych)

3) He picks a fight when he finds out my sister has been chatting online

4) He discusses my sister's "wrong priorities in life" with my older cousin

5) My sister cannot go out just anytime now since he's always checking up on her... and will pick a fight when she goes out at odd hours of the night (like, go w/ the maid to buy chips and beer at 7-11)

And tho... the protective sister in me can't help but laugh that my sis has found a stricter bf who want to account for her every move... the loving sister in me however wonders if this guy, because he's a lot older... is just some twit trying to fashion my sister according to his values, wishes and rules...

Told my sis that I want the bf to attend my birthday party... so I can deduce for myself if he's really just a mature and caring person looking out for her... or a manipulative and insecure guy hoping to emotionally disable her...

Am I worried for my sis? A little... actually, am more worried that, since the guy has a car.. she might take it upon herself to straddle him there... But it doesn't seem likely... and since she's already fed up w/ the man's demands anyway...

Life....