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in prayers, please pray...

for a 23-year old girl, spoiled by dad, who have gotten pregnant out of wedlock, to start taking responsibility for her actions... and also be humbled enough to at least apologize to parents she's hurt, and start mending her relationship with her own mother...

and that her younger sister make wiser choices

and her brothers to not allow women they will love (or not) to be in the same situation

and that her father, who have spoiled her so, wake up from his wrong notions of daughter-rearing, and start treating her as an adult with responsibilities and accountabilities, while also supporting her and loving her...

and that her mother can find the grace and the strength to continue loving such an unappreciative child...

and that a soon-to-wed couple get past this little glitch...

that they both make peace with the fact that they won't be giving any set of parents a first apo

and that the bride shouldn't now depend that her mother-in-law can take the place of her Mother (who is living abroad now) when she's pregnant... because that MIL will be helping her daughter raise a child instead...

and that the groom will stop mourning all over again for the child that could have been the first apo... the one he couldn't protect before...

and that the same groom stop being affected in different aspects and levels by what happened... and may he never punch the guy who impreganted his sister (as some big brothers are wont to do)...

and that the couple find ways to start looking forward again to building a family someday... to start kidding each other again about pregnancy and kids, about being a Mommy and a Daddy...

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It's so painful knowing your beloved is hurting and you can't do anything to take the pain away...

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I know there will be better days...

I know our future kids will not be less loved by our families, and I know we'd love them more than we've loved any kid before...

I know things could have been worse...

And I know that every child is still a blessing...

One day at a time... everything will start being OK again...

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By the way... alam nyo bang Tayo'y hindi tigang?
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